Rich your my fav atleast you show consideration for your girlfriend and try to get involved even though its something you displease, see you'd be the type of person that a religious person would be, just without the faith in God or a God!
but you say you dont wanna hurt them by what you say, but just out of curiosity, what would you say to them? what if they were able to throw something back at you? its great to see you have confidence and knowledge in what your on about tho!
I love my girlfriend so naturally I'm going to show respect for something that means so much to her. It is hard for me though - what do I say when she asks "so do you believe any of this?" I have to be honest with her in the most loving way I can.
I try to avoid religious arguments because it's a bit of a lost cause. It's just two people trying to prove the point to each other, niether of them backing down. Seeing as you ask though, I would bring up matters of sheer evidence.
-If god performed so many miracles in the past, why does he not perform them now? Some would say that he still does, but when was the last time you saw the sea part and people walking along the bottom of it?
-The proof
for evolution is growing stronger every day. While this does not disprove that there is a god, it certainly disproves the genesis chaper.
-Circular reasoning that most Christians seem to use, such as: "The Bible is true because it says it's true and we believe it" proves absolutely nothing.
-If early Christians thought the world was spherical, as many religions point out as "proof that the Bible was written by god", why did Satan lead Jesus to the top of a mountain where he "could see all the kingdoms of the earth" when this is only physically possible if the earth was flat? --A common rebuttal of this is that the Bible is only speaking figuratively. If this is true, how many other scriptures that religious organisations cite as "proofs" are in fact figurative?
-If armageddon was "just around the corner" 2465 years ago, is it
still just around the corner? Some people think that 1 year on Earth equals 1 day in heaven. Whether this is true or not, even god must be getting a bit impatient after 2465 days of waiting...
-If Adam and Eve were the first two people, then had a son, then another son, then another son, and then their son got married and had a son... hang on... who did he marry again?
-As I mentioned earlier, the Bible makes no reference to dinosaurs or any prehistoric animal. Could this be because they simply didn't know about them? Certainly god would have known about them, but if god wrote the Bible, why did he not make reference to them? They are quite a significant item in the planet's history. This of course would also mean that the time between the fifth day (when he created animals) and sixth day (when he created man) spanned around 150-200 million years!! I've read many Christian websites that attempt to answer this and most tend to side-step the issue and say something to the effect of: "god's creation of the earth was supernatural so we can't understand it with our finite minds". This is not a satisfactory answer.
-The same thing can be said about the stars, created on the fourth day. If god said let there be light, and there was light, on the first day, what exactly was making the light? The sun as we all know, is a star.
-There is no evidence of a great flood in the last 3000 years. It has been shown to be possible that a boat the size of Noah's ark could hold what it said it held (albeit by following extremely strict - and controversial - guidelines) but what of all the plant matter? Most land plants cannot survive underwater for more than a few days.
This is just what I can think of in about 15 minutes. The more I think about it, the more inconsistencies pop up in my mind. I'm not trying to convert anyone here - I'm just showing that my reasons for not believing in any organised religion don't come from nowhere. I haven't made up my mind about a higher power over everything else, but suffice to say that I don't need any proof that there is one - I only need to look at things that are special to me - animals, birds, my girlfriend, all the
good things I see being done, the wonderful natural places to go in the world...
To quote an ad on tv at the moment: "But religion? Nah."