if u want a car that looks the goods, but not over the top, then i rekon a candy apple red would be hot. i usually wouldn't recommend this colour (apart from the fact that i hav a personal vendetta against the colour red in general, dunno why, just do!
), but seeing as you're a girl, then i rekon it'll suit....
or perhaps even like a silver and purple or pink pearl?
as for the racing stripe.... oh dear god! a few ppl here hav done a stripe or two and (imo) i really don't think that a u12/trx can pull it off. makes it look like a try-hard-wannabe-rice cake.
then once/when/IF you get a paint job done, then u gotta think about what wheels will match, then lowering, engine work.... one thing turns into another and it never ends!
anywho, good luck with it all