i agree it probably isn't great for the turbo, but hell when a stock replacement is $150-$200 imo it's worth the risk. at present i cbf getting a new plumback, and i gain 1psi or so from blocking the stock bov, so to be it's a worth while risk. been like that for around a year, maybe more now. btw the turbo doesn't instantly stock spinning or anything, it's a gradual thing still, the clamping of a wheel analogy is a bit extreme.
as for the ecu/safc stuff, your stock ecu cuts fuel on deceleration as it is. aren't the safcs just voltage benders for the afm signal anyway? i'm pretty sure the original ones were.