been doing even further reading
a lot of the silvia people are choosing between the gt28rs (disco potato) in either a 0.62 or 0.82 exhaust and the gt2871r in either 46, 52, 56 trims with either 0.64 or 0.82 exhaust.
now the gt28rs for the silvia boys has a max power of about 220-230kw with cams on around 17-19psi, while the gt2871r has about 240-250kw power with cams, but with 20-22psi. apparently the gt2871r really loves the bigger boost 1.4bar+
i really think ur exhaust system and dump is letting you down. im estimating we will lose an extra 10% from our drivetrain, so with the gt2871r you should get about 230kw with all the support mods (which you alrady have)
ill write a bit more later from my research